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Wednesday, January 4, 2012

An Anti-Bullying Strategy for One Child that Affected the Whole School

An Anti-Bullying Strategy for One Child that Affected the Whole School:

An Anti-Bullying Strategy for One Child that Affected the Whole School

“I Am Not the Only One”

Part 1

In the autumn of 1974, in my first year as school principal, a kind and gentle fifth grader named Davion was having trouble with some of the other boys in the class. In particular, Jeremy was becoming increasingly intimidating. The teachers intervened anytime they saw an incident. Jeremy had already been sent to my office once, and the teachers were beginning to talk to me about him. We felt that bullying was going on, but saw very few punishable offenses.

One day, Davion’s mother—a kind, thoughtful, single parent —came to my office to complain about Jeremy. I assured her that we had a policy of no tolerance for bullying or harassment. Any kind of physical or verbal violence was unacceptable.

She said, “I can understand people saying mean things to each other, but I have told Davion never, ever to be